Jim Claviezel (JC): conviction amidst struggles on acting as christ

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The Movie PASSION OF CHRIST:

“Mel Gibson warned actor Jim Caviezel that playing the character of Christ was going to be very difficult and that if he accepted, he most likely would be marginalized by Hollywood.

Caviezel asked for a day to think about it and his response to Mel who was funding and directing the movie was: "I think we have to make it, even if it is difficult." And something else, my initials are J.C., and I am 33 years old. "I didn't realize that until now."

Mel responded with “You're really scaring me you know.”

During filming, Jim Caviezel who plays the part of Jesus lost 45 pounds, he was struck by lightning, he was accidentally struck twice during the scourging scene leaving a deep 14-inch scar, he dislocated his shoulder when the cross was dropped into the hole with him on the cross. He then suffered pneumonia and hypothermia from being nearly naked with only a loin cloth on the cross for endless hours. The crucifixion scene alone took 5 weeks of the 2 months of shooting.

His body was so stressed and exhausted from playing the role that he had to undergo two open heart surgeries after the filming production.

Jim explained, “I didn’t want people to see me. I just want them to see Jesus. Conversions will happen through that.”

Almost like a clairvoyant prediction many amazing things happened.

Pedro Sarubbi, who played Barabbas, felt that it was not Caviezel who was looking at him, but Jesus Christ himself, as he played that role he said of Caviezel, “His eyes had no hatred or resentment towards me, only mercy and love."

Luca Lionello, the artist who played Judas, was an avowed atheist before shooting began. He eventually converted, and baptized his children.

One of the main technicians working on the film was a Muslim converted to Christianity.

Some producers said they saw actors dressed in white they didn’t recognize during one of the filming sessions, and when they reviewed the recordings they realized they couldn’t see them in that footage.

The Passion of the Christ is the highest grossing US religious as well as the highest R-rated film of all time, with $370.8 million! Worldwide, it grossed $611 million.

More importantly, it has reached 100’s of millions of people around the world.

Mel Gibson paid $30 million out of his own pocket for the production of the film because no studio would take on the project.

Today Jim Caviezel simply and boldly proclaims his faith in Christ, and the miracle it was for him to represent Christ as an actor and a greater believer of Christ because of this experience.

empathy for priests

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When You Visit A Priest, Please Remember...

That a priest isn't married, nor will he have a family of his own. No wife, no children. His family is his parishioners. He is a spiritual father in faith to the community he serves. His future is in celebrating the Eucharist at mass every day, listening to confessions, anointing the sick, serving those who come to him for help. A priest may serve a parish only for a minimum of five to seven years. After that he may be transferred to another parish or assigned a different role in the Church. He relies on his team of volunteers, staff and the lay faithful. Don't expect him to be there all the time for you.

When you give money to the Church, you may be surprised to know that the money isn't for him because no priest earns a fixed salary. They receive a stipend to meet their basic expenses of food, clothing and travel. They save every penny to go for a vacation and much of the money is gifted by friends, relatives and well wishers as they don't get paid leave like the rest of us who work.

While we work for a fixed amount of hours with two days off a week, priests are expected to be on stand by 24/7. So don't be angry if they don't respond to you when you need them. They are humans as well with the same frailty as us.

If you hear anyone speaking badly about a particular priest, please correct that person and don't engage in idle gossip without knowing the facts. Remember that they are alone and at times would need company. Pay attention to their emotional, physical and mental needs. Accompany them if needed or offer a helping hand or even a lift. It's not easy to go out alone at 2 or 3 in the morning especially in dangerous neighborhoods for counseling or even anointing someone on their death bed. If someone comes to them at such an hour for help, they have to get up from their deep sleep and still be expected to celebrate Mass in the morning. Who is there for them when they are ill or have emergencies in the middle of the night? Yet they are required to perform their duties because if not them, who?

Remember their birthdays, ordination anniversaries and important events in their lives. Celebrate with them, cry with them. Offer a shoulder to lean on. If they fall, don't judge or criticize. Lift them up and help them on their journey in life. Don't be offended if they don't live up to your expectations. No priest is perfect.

So take care of your priests, remember the ones who baptized, confirmed, married and anointed you. The ones who offer masses for your intentions and pray for you. May God bless our priests in Jesus name, our eternal High Priest. Amen.

-Clive Fernandez

from actress to nun: dolores hart 1957...

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At the age of 18 Delores landed a part playing Elvis Presley’s love interest in the 1957 movie Loving You.

She had important parts in 9 more films over the next 5 years, playing opposite Stephen Boyd, Montgomery Clift, George Hamilton and Robert Wagner. She got engaged to be married, and had her pick of roles.

Then, suddenly, at the age of 24, engaged to be married and a rising Hollywood star, she announced she was leaving it all to become a nun.

She later explained that she had a turning point while filming Francis of Assisi, in which she played St. Clare of Assisi.

She met Pope St. John XXIII in Italy during the filming, and when she introduced herself, “I am Dolores Hart, the actress playing Clare,” he responded, “No, you are St. Clare of Assisi!”

Her fans and friends were in shock, angry even, when they heard the news.

“Even my best friend,” Hart recalled years later, “who was a priest, Fr. Doody, said, ‘You’re crazy. This is absolutely insane to do this.’

One friend wrote her angry letters for years after she joined the convent, trying to talk her out of “throwing her life away.”

Hart’s response?

“If you heard what I hear,” she told her friend, “you would come, too.”

faithfulness to the call & mission: the heartfelt class of 1987

 

1987

2023

masturbation evolved 40 million years ago in primates & common in animal kingdom

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Evolutionary Biology researcher Dr. Brindle & co-researchers (in Proceedings of the Royal Society B) found our "dirty little secret" must have evolved around 40 million years ago among primates. Research on 105 out of 272 primate species found that 74.5% of females and 87.4% of males do this "ancient, evolved trait." Zoo keepers and Primatologists were also interviewed. 

Q: Why?

A: No conclusive answer. While there seems to be no fitness benefits, the theory pf high libido was challenged and the possibility of clearing pathogens was advanced. In females, it could possibly increase mate selection as it made the environment more hospitable to male sperm. 

The self-pleasuring activity correlated with mating systems with multiple partners and incidences of STDs.

masturbation triggers and coping strategies

02/13/23 27M US

Q21: How frequently do you currently masturbate? What are its triggers? Describe your masturbatory fantasies. How do you feel about it?

 A21: "Once every three weeks. Videos on social media with sexual content that I scroll to. If I continue to pursue will lead eventually to pornography that leads to masturbation. The feeling of a LACK OF CONNECTION WITH PEOPLE / FRIENDS or a DIFFICULT TASK THAT I WANT TO DISTRACT MYSELF FROM will often lead to more media consumption increasing the odds of falling for sexual content and starting the trigger" [caps mine].

Q46: What do you think will be the difficulties and struggles for you in trying to live celibate chastity?

46: "I think there will be challenges in communication that could make me feel isolated or not unified in service and fellowship with my fellow SOW Brothers. I will have to find a proper response to deal with that. Another Struggle will be to keep working on developing a breadth of relationships in my brotherhood and in the broader community. Working through DISCOURAGEMENT and FEAR will be an important skill I will need to continue to foster." [caps mine]

example of aggressive / "you" communication

 27 apr 2023

on this day, I almost got into another "ineffective communication" (religious debate) with a born again 62M client who was healed gradually from listening to the late mr eli soriano, a protestant preacher, on radio. he eventually joined their flock & became an ardent collaborator.

he said: "sinasamba ninyo (you) si mama mary!" 

thank god, I was able to restrain myself and proceeded with the psychotherapy session which resulted in profuse tears and outright immediate FORGIVENESS for his MOTHER who verbally and physically abused them and led him to become a multi-drug addict in the 70s!